Kind words and forgiveness is better than charity followed by something that hurt (feelings of the recipient). Allah is Rich, Clement. (Al-Baqarah; 263)

Every soul shall taste death. And only on the Day of Resurrection alone perfected your reward. Whoever removed from the Fire and admitted to the heaven, then indeed he has been lucky. Life of the world is no more than the pleasure of deception (Al Imran: 185)